Monday, April 23, 2012

Online Dating


Okay, question for the guys. 
Why the fuck do guys on online dating sites continue to message you even after you don't reply. Literally for months! And then if I don't go on for awhile and come back they send me another message. It's like wtf you know nothing about me or my interests. Maybe the second or third time I might of messaged you, but once it gets to the 5 or 6th time it becomes weird and you are clearly not right some how.

Then to and say "No one can be entertaining enough for you" doesn't make sense. It's literally been so long since this guy first messaged me I had no idea who he was or what he was talking about till I check his profile then I was like seriously, you again? 

And maybe I was a bitch for not messaging him the second time (maybe I did, I can't remember it's been awhile) but if I'm not interested I'm not gonna pretend to be interested. If I can't see anything about you I find attractive or interesting why should I bother? I know maybe some people would say I'm being quick to judge, and I probably am, but I hate wasting my time when I don't care and I hate leading someone on I don't feel anything for. 

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Assumptions

Why do some guys seem to assume if you dance them they can kiss you? And then why do they assume that if you kiss them you're going to have sex with them? I'm so sick of this.  If I kiss you it's only because I want to and if I'm having sex with it's only cause we're dating. That is it.  This one guy I danced tonight who  was a decent dancer, cute and seemed normal kept trying to kiss me even after I'd said no.  Finally, realising I didn't want to kiss him he bailed (thank god).  But seriously guys there is never a situation where it is acceptable to force yourself on a girl. Ever. I've been there and it is a horrible feeling. Be a respectful, please. (this seems do obvious that I don't even know why I'm bothering to state it, but as I know apparently some guys just cannot do this.)